The thing is I don’t even know why I’m supposed to care that “Don’t you know that not all sex workers are trafficked victims! Don’t you know that some women who do sex work are educated and middle class and choose to be there?” its like yes yes i do know that because you never shut the fuck up about it, you never let those of us who were trafficked or forced or who had no other choice get a word in edge ways about it. You never let us, of whom there are far more of than those of you who choose to do it, talk about the way it laid waste to our lives, our histories our relationships, our ability to function as people are supposed to be able to function, you never let us care about the millions of women and children in the world who are in the situations we were in, who are being beaten, raped, sold, who have no choice no agency, no hope, you never let us talk about them, organize to help them, you never let us speak up against the men that hurt them, that hurt us, without having to tell us that we are terrible feminists because we don’t care that you chose to be a sex worker.