Me, Myself & I

There was an entire pantheon of things Rodney was willing to concede could exist, even though he’d never personally witnessed evidence thereof. Time travel, for starters. Space aliens. The perfect man. But he absolutely, positively could not accept that he’d been dreaming of a guy he’d never seen before in his life, who turned out to be real.

“The hell it is!” The man’s touch was cool even though his shirt, the way icy air seeped right through loose-weave fabric. “Okay… I’ve got to stay calm, think about this…” He winced. “I’m dreaming again, aren’t I? I mean, I must be, because you’re not real. You’re not even remotely possible. You don’t exist.”

And yet, here I am, all thanks to you. You saved me.

“John?” The name was a strangled whisper. Rodney could not bring himself to lay a hand on John in return, to throw off the grip and flee. Instead, he was captivated, sitting there trembling beneath the touch.

John broke into a smile that was all the more horrific for its fondness. I’ve been considering what you said, he pressed on, and it turns out you were right. I never thought I’d make it out of there, so I never gave any thought to what comes next. If you hadn’t brought me here, and let me stay with you, I… I don’t know what would have happened, but I’m certain it would have destroyed me.

Oh god, oh god… he had offered to let John stay with him. I’ll try if you will, he’d said, meaning that he and John could attempt to eke out new lives here, together. John was taking full advantage of his goddamned invitation.

John’s hand slid off his shoulder and down his arm, raising goosebumps in its wake. I’ve been watching you, you know. He shifted closer to Rodney, until their knees were pressed together. I like what I see, and I think we could be good together.

“Oh, fuck me! This is a dream, a very demented dream, and I need to wake up right now,” Rodney babbled.

It comes down to who is the patient. Is the woman the patient, or is the fetus the patient? One or other is the patient. I’ve never heard a fetus talk to me. I’ve heard thousands and thousands of women share their pain, their desperation, and their hopelessness.

Dr. George Tiller, an abortion provider from Wichita, Kansas, who was murdered on May 31, 2009 at his church where he was serving as an usher/greeter.  (via iamdrtiller)

(via lesbionictonic)

For the past eight months, Chicago has served as the site of a pilot interreligious program designed to foster religious dialogue and understanding, using a resource most religious and spiritual communities already have at their fingertips—spaces to gather.

“At a time when hatred and violence erupts over religious differences internationally, [this] quiet collaborative effort in Chicago has forged alliances and fostered new friendships across religious lines”, said Rev. Dirk Ficca, executive director of the CPWR.

Chicago architect Suzanne Morgan, inspired by her work with liturgical architecture, served as the impetus of the program. Since mosques, churches, synagogues, and temples are in a sense a spiritual group’s “home,” sharing them would lend a sense of kinship and community not unlike when neighbors visit each other.

“Spaces become sacred through the meaning they have for their communities,” said Morgan. “Sharing that meaning can build bridges of trust and reduce social tension and cultural misunderstanding.”

tomlinsarse:

i’m about to cry

my brother told me that only today he found out that LGBT stood for les/gay/bi/trans instead of lettuce green bacon tomato

he looked at me and he had tears in his eyes and he said in the most horrified voice

i’ve been telling people i like LGBT sandwiches okay that means i’ve been having gay sandwiches

then he started to cry and ran off and yelled

they all think i’ve had gay threesomes!!!!!

i’m actually crying omg 

[On “How Do You Write Such Strong Female Characters?”] There’s a second part to the question. The unspoken part. It’s the part where I’m being asked and not, say, Laura Lippman. Because Laura is a woman, and it’s presumed therefore that she knows how to write about women, what with having been one her entire adult life. By the same token, Laura Lippman is not asked how it is she can write such convincing, strong male characters. Implicit in her job as a crafter of fiction is the demand that she must. No question need be asked.

Greg Rucka, in a piece for io9 (via itsinthetrees)

Being unable to write male characters well means you’re not a good writer; being unable to write female characters well is optional to being a good writer.

(via mswyrr)

captainmjolnir:

Would if I could man

[TW: rape culture, victim blaming]

Men who want to flirt with women have to realize: Women live in a state of continual vigilance about sexual safety. It’s like having a mild case of hay fever that never goes away. It’s not debilitating. You’re not weak. You’re not afraid. You just suck it up and get on with your life. It’s nothing that’s going to stop you from making discoveries, or climbing mountains, or falling in love. Sometimes you can almost forget about it. It doesn’t mean it’s not there, subtly sucking your energy. You learn to avoid situations that make it worse and seek out conditions that make it better.

If a female stranger is wary around you, it is not because she suspects you are a rapist, or that all men are rapists. It’s because a general level of circumspection is what vigilance requires. Don’t take it personally.

If this frustrates you, try to remember that women are blamed for lapsed vigilance. If a woman does get raped, everyone rushes to see where she let her guard down. Was she drinking? Was she alone? Was she wearing a short skirt? Did she go to a strange man’s room for coffee at 4am?

A woman must be seen to be vigilant as well as be vigilant. If she is deemed insufficiently vigilant, she will be at least partly blamed for any sexual violence that befalls her. If she’s regarded as downright reckless, that “evidence” can be used to completely exonerate her rapist. If it comes down to a he said/she said dispute over whether sex was consensual, as so many rape cases do, the dispute becomes a referendum on whether the woman seems like the sort of reckless person who would have sex with a stranger.

If a woman does go back to a strange man’s hotel room at 4am, even if she only wants a coffee and conversation, she’s more or less given him the power to rape her. No jury is going to believe she went up there for anything but sex. So, don’t be surprised if a stranger reacts badly to that suggestion.

Attention, Space Cadets: Do Not Proposition Women in the Elevator (via sugarbooty)

I reblog this a lot but I do like it.

(via historicalslut)

historicalslut:

homoviper:

(kristen refused to pose alone for them)

be mine

I don’t care if I hate the majority of the movies she has been in, she is badass.

triangularisthepie:

kiriamaya:

This was going to be a long post, but it really doesn’t need to be, because the thought I’m having is pretty simple:

I agree with Serano when she says that a major key to gender liberation is “work[ing] to empower femininity, in all its forms.” But I…

I figured a way out — a way to get rid of all the lesbians and queers. But I couldn’t get it passed through Congress. Build a great big large fence, 150 or 100 miles long. Put all the lesbians in there. Fly over and drop some food. Do the same thing with the queers and the homosexuals. Have that fence electrified so they can’t get out. Feed ‘em, and– And you know what? In a few years they’ll die out. You know why? They can’t reproduce.

North Carolina pastor Charles Worley (via think-progress)

He shared this with his congregation on Sunday.

This is the world we live in.

(via lalondes)

Um, excuse me Charles? You know a few years ago some guy also had an idea to do this too. He just hated a group of people and so he put them into their own neighborhoods, then he decided that it wasn’t enough, and that he needed to get rid of them. So he did, about six million of them. That guy? He was Hitler, and he killed six million jewish people in a little event called the Holocaust. You know what though? It started out like this, just a little suggestion made from someone who managed by some disaster to get a position that holds some power. 

(via youdontdeserveaquote)